My kids would rush down the staircase shouting – ‘Mummy, mummy, uncle Dave has got up from bed and he is preparing to go to work!’ Every time I heard that, I’d look up and say, ‘Thank you, God!’ Why…
Remote control; that’s how mama brought broda back from America
By the late 90s/early 2000, my elder brother, (he is my step brother actually) had finished his studies in the US and was already working. At that time too, a good number of family members and friends who had also…
That change you desire can only start with you – Tara Martins Aisida
It’s the beginning of a new year and like most people I am eager to see what it will bring. A lot of us have written down our goals on paper and that’s good. I also believe in writing goals and…
Ok, Pastor deceived her, but to be honest my sister was greedy!
My sister will tell you she had a problem, that business was not moving for her. But my dear, who is business moving for in Nigeria? If you are not the governor or related to people in power in Abuja,…
Let me tell you how I almost became a porn star!
Thankfully, the days when people mindlessly forwarded videos of children either being sexually exploited or engaging in sexual acts are almost over; people now have the good sense not to forward such. Why? It simply perpetuates the crime of child…
After Lekki Sunsplash, all music concerts make me cry
I read something on your website about the yuletide period being the period many people are depressed or are mourning. Yes. It is true. It’s funny how some people gear up to enjoy the season and others just want to…
Help the grieving this season – Tara Martins Aisida
The holiday season is upon us. It is the season of parties, merrymaking and family gatherings. We all have reasons to be grateful to be seeing the end of another year but for some of us, it’s a season mixed…
She went from soccer star to security guard all because she said no to sex
When they say we are a corrupt people in Nigeria, don’t think it is only our leaders. The average Nigerian who has small power also wields it in the most corrupt manner. Why am I talking like this? I have…
This is not The Gods are not to Blame, but I killed my mother and married my father!
Some stories are weird and leave a bad taste in your mouth, mine is. I grew up an adopted child. I had known since I was a lot younger that the person I called Mummy was not my real mother…
We all wanted to be like him, then something horrible happened!
I visited my old street, where I grew up, a few weeks ago and everything had changed…for the worse. I saw a former neighbor, Bro Gabe, he was my role model back in the day but when he called my…