My mother is almost 83 years old and she has dementia. Her dementia began when she turned 65years; she was forgetting things, incidents, people. You now dementia, don’t you? My siblings and I took her from one hospital to another,…
Don’t bottle it all up-Tara Aisida
I had seen the video in many of the whatsapp groups that I belonged to but I wasn’t eager to watch it until I began to read the comments which seemed to decry all the new fangled methods of raising…
He came to take a dump but we were tired of his shit!
When I was about 6 or 7 years old, I recall my father had a friend, a huge man who always came to our house in the afternoons to shit in our toilet and never flushed it! I kid you not!…
She is pregnant for my hubby but WE don’t want the baby!
She was not exactly my friend. We moved in the same circles, have the same schoolmates, our kids, at one time, went to the same school and we lived within the same estate! Yes, we lived in the same estate;…
10 years ago my sister disappeared. Her story will shock you.
We lived on a very long street. The street was divided into two; on the left were the poor while the right belonged to the rich and I am not telling you a fairy tale. It was as if some…
I am a refined feminist-Tara Aisida
If you are on Twitter, you may have noticed that in the past few days, women circles have been quite active and the word “Feminist coven” trended. Several ladies now have the word “member feminist coven” on their bylines and…
Yes, I caused her death but I can never admit it in public
Ours was a forbidden love and we knew it from the get go. We could easily have been siblings because we were born at about the same time, same day at the same hospital. Maybe that’s why we fell in…
She is my sister, my only sister but we are sworn enemies
My mother had two children; both of us are girls; my father of course had many wives; and as you know in most polygamous homes, the wives are often the ones who care for the children; the father is a…
He wants his baby but I said, no
Mine is a simple and short story. I needed to share because I need to hear my own thoughts. I started out on this journey by not thinking. I wasn’t thinking when shortly after I separated from my husband of…
Open relationships, swinging and sex toys-Tara Aisida
If there is anything I am fascinated with apart from people and how they reason, it is an understanding of the dynamics of relationships and how people conduct, live or cope with the uniqueness of their situation. So you can…