My sperm made a child and I want him!
I am in talks with my lawyer so I can’t reveal much here. But here’s the story.
I met two ladies while I was house-sitting for someone back in 2020. At that time, Covid-19 was just about to hit. I was a student who had two menial jobs and got supplemented from home in Nigeria by my parents.
When I agreed to housesit, the money offered was good. The family that owned the house had gone to Spain for something, not sure what but in the US, you can get paid just to housesit.
Now, it’s a really posh area where this house is and their next-door neighbours were a lesbian mixed race lesbian couple. A black woman, Sabrina who is mixed race and who also happens to be a lawyer, and her wife, Kel, who is Hispanic and a care worker.
Now, Kel is a very fine woman. She is one of these exotic beauties you see in magazines. She was at that time in her early thirties while Sab, as I said, is older, in her late 40s.
If it hadn’t been that Kel was married, I would have approached her. I also suspect she liked me early on. She would holla at me from across the fence and sometimes come over to chat with me.
Well, Covid came and we were all trapped. That’s how I began to talk to them more often…of course, first, it was Kel I began to talk to. If I found Sabrina outside, I would sneak back into the house. Anyway as neighbours, we would see each other over the fence and talk and you know. I began to get lonely. So I would wait to see if Kel was in their garden, so I could talk to her over the fence.
The invite
One day, she actually invited me over to theirs for dinner. Right from get-go, Sabrina didn’t like me as I said. Maybe she saw the way I was looking at Kel. She didn’t like me and I wasn’t keen on her either. But we both liked Kel very much so…
Then the talk of them trying for a baby came up. By this time, Kel was openly flirting with me and Sabrina would act like she wasn’t seeing it. You know, think back now, they must have decided how to trap me. All of that flirting Kel was doing was part of their plan.
Now, because Sabrina was a lawyer, I knew I had to be careful around her. Lawyers know how to eff you up big time!
Sabina, after dinner one day, told me she and Kel had a proposal for me. Before then, she’d asked me what I felt about having children. I said I didn’t want any. She asked why, so I said I didn’t have the money. More so, I hadn’t met anyone I would even think of having children with. He asked about my family in Nigeria… what we were like. You know, questions I answered honestly without knowing what she was leading to.
So she said to me, she and her wife, Kel wanted to know if I could father their child. I said, “Father, how do you mean?” Of course, I knew what she meant but I wanted her to clarify.
She said they had gone through donors but Kel couldn’t get pregnant and they wanted to ensure she did before hitting 40!
I agreed to donate my sperm
You see, at that time, what could have worked was for me to get paid if I go to the clinic and donate my sperm. The doctors would take it up from there but remember, I told you, we were on lockdown, and there was no going anywhere to donate anything. So it meant we had to have sex!
I’m just breaking down the story fast.
So you see, even if it was to donate all my sperm till the next generation to Kel’s through sex, I would gladly have done it.
But remember, I told you I didn’t like Sab and she herself wasn’t great on me, either but she knew I liked Kel and because of that, in drawing up a nondisclosure, there were a lot of gags to it. I was foolish and was only thinking with my dick at that time. I was careless. All I was thinking of was, I was going to get paid for having sex with a woman I had been fantasising about for weeks.
I didn’t mind at all.
I was to be paid a certain amount before and when she got pregnant, a balance would be paid. Because of the non-disclosure, I can’t reveal the amount but it was quite substantial, however, not as substantial as if they had gone to get it from the clinics…
After all the paperwork had been signed, I was invited to their home one morning. I went over with a mad hard-on…like I said, Kel was sexy, a real beauty.
When I got into the room and began Kissing Kel, Sabiran came in, she planned on monitoring things. I lost my hard-on immediately and told both of them I couldn’t perform in front of an audience. I was ready to pack up and leave…
The sex was great
So Sabrina agreed to leave and Kel and I got on with it….she is a really fine woman and when she landed on me on the bed…
It was great with her.
As you know, this kind of thing doesn’t mean you get the woman pregnant just once…I would go over or Kel herself would come to my place alone and I tell you the next few weeks were the most xxxd of my life.
Some two weeks after, while Kel and I were busy with each other, Sabrina snuck into the room and joined us in bed. She didn’t come to monitor, she came to have fun as well…a threesome. I had both of them…had both of them for days…jumping from one to another…those lockdown days were the best days of our lives, I think!
As in…we all couldn’t get enough, probably also because there was nothing else to do anyway…
Then around September, of course, we were still on lockdown but you know it had begun to ease out. Kel still wasn’t pregnant but Sabrina was!
You know. She wasn’t the one who wanted to carry the babies plus the fact that she was already in her mid-40s, there was a fear of her having a baby with congenital defects because of her age. Sabrina wasn’t meant to be pregnant, it was Kel. But they both wanted a baby.
But I wasn’t meant to get her pregnant. Anyway, they were both happy but I wasn’t…even if I had agreed to surrender my paternity of the baby, I still wanted Kel to be the mother, I know it wasn’t mine to decide but still…
With Sabrina pregnant, my services were over! I was paid the final balance and practically told to fxxkoff! The manner in which she dismissed me was humiliating.
I just want my child
I felt used. Thankfully, it was also getting to be when I had to leave because the borders were partially opened and the owners of the house I was sitting at were planning to return.
I left and returned to Atlanta and stuck to our agreement of never contacting them ever again.
Fast forward to late last year, I was on Facebook, just scrolling when I saw a photo of the boy I fathered. He was a fine baby. Dark and handsome like me and thankfully, no birth defects that I noticed in the photos I saw. He had turned two and there was Sabrina and Kel celebrating.
I know I had signed a full non-disclosure but, that’s my flesh and blood…he would never know me?
He would never hear anything about me?
What kind of lie will they tell him when he begins to ask questions? They will say I am dead? When I am alive and kicking and want to be a part of his life?
I tried to contact Kel, I felt she would be more understanding but she reminded me of our contract and told me to keep off!
I can’t!
That child is mine and I want to be a part of his life… that’s all I ask. They said no and we will head to court soon, I have contacted a lawyer! I will fight for my son!
(Series written and edited by Peju Akande and based on true stories)