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When you forgive, do you really forget? – Gbubemi Atimomo

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  1. Faithie says:

    This is so spot on Gbubemi. You honestly couldn’t have said it any better. Speaking from my experience, what rings true for me is that element of consequence mgt. The world for some inexplicable reason puts the onus of forgiveness on the aggrieved rather than on the perpetrator. Especially with women in marriages I must say. The husband stays repeating THE SAME actions because there was no consequence from the first act, yet the woman MUST forgive our she is wrecking her home. It is never expected that the man BEG for forgiveness, instead expectation is for the aggrieved to GIVE forgiveness, regardless of what it means for both parties.

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