Unstoppable Ngozi Wahala — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
It’s not for nothing that she is fondly referred to as Ngozi Wahala in many…
My husband wants to make his mistress’ child, mine
My husband’s mistress is a widow but let me backtrack. I met my husband in…
Keeping up with the White House or Aso Rock? — Gbubemi Atimomo
Reflections on our love for foreign political processes at the expense of our local politics …
Return of kwashiorkor — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
The deadly kwashiorkor disease that was so much associated with the Biafra war has made…
I made it my business to stop my mother from cheating on her man
I call my mother, “my aunty” because I grew up believing she was my aunt…
The inordinate quest for self-validation & importance — Tara Aisida
Nowadays, as I skim through social media, I am astonished and worried at the amount…
Rigger takes all — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
Nigeria is in a class of its own. Other countries may talk of “winner takes…
He told me I was the sweetest thing but I’m his daughter!
I didn’t know what being the “sweetest” thing meant when my father told me. I…
Watch what you measure — Tara Aisida
I was at a social gathering some time ago and I happened to find myself…
I wanted money for marriage so I kidnapped my father in- law to be
It was a simple plan but the morons I planned it with just bungled it…
My abuser is my brother-in-law, what do I do?
When I was young, I was raped at the age of 15 by someone who…
No more free stuff in Naija
Thoughts on facing the harsh realities of subsidy removal in Nigeria In May 2023, when…
Can a person be owned? — Tara Aisida
If there is one concept that irks me and that I feel strongly and deeply…
The haunted house of power — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
Let’s start out by reminding ourselves that a haunted house is almost always a place…
Why being in your child’s life benefits you — Tara Aisida
“Daddy you weren’t there for mummy during her fathers death and burial like she was…
All in a day’s hustle in Naija — Gbubemi Atimomo
Musings on Nigerians’ resourcefulness and resilience in finding creative ways to surviveIf there’s one thing…
Nigeria @ 64: A dangerous one-party diabolism — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
The one-party phenomenon that ruined many African countries in the past is being regurgitated in…
The Cycle of Retaliation and Collective Blame: A path to destruction — Tara Aisida
As I write this article, the “Bolt for Bolt” war between South African and Nigerian…
Will you keep quiet — Gbubemi Atimomo
Musings on the average Nigerian’s affinity for noise If there is one book I recommend…
Dictatorship of democracy — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
Democracy has become a game of blackmail in Nigeria. It is only in Nigeria that…
My own don finish o! Of all the people in Lagos, I robbed a police woman!
It was around that kind 7 o clock for night that we went to rob…
If you want to lose weight, eat everything
There’s a new craze in town – suddenly, Nigerians want to be slim and svelte…
Let’s rig the Olympics — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
The Paris 2024 Olympic Games cannot be forgotten in a hurry, especially as the Giant…
What perps count on
They count on us victim blaming, they count on us not believing the victim. ,…
If virginity is a woman’s pride, what is a man’s? — Tara Aisida
I was minding my business on X (formerly Twitter) when I noticed that virginity was…
My boss’s wife beat me for being with him!
True story about my boss’ wife. Full disclosure. I’ve never been the type of woman…
*WhatsApp may exit Nigeria over FG’s demands, $220m fine (Tribune)*IGP says cops murdered, injured in protests, puts officers on red alert (Channels)
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The Power of One Voice: Empowering yourself and others in every situation — Tara Aisida
In December 1981, Lazarus Ogbonnaga Ukeje a native of Umuahia, Abia State though resident in…
Occupy till the end — Gbubemi Atimomo
Thoughts on protests and expressions of dissatisfaction with the status quo When messages about the…
The familiar road of damnation — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
Protest is all the rage in Nigeria today. Democracy allows for peaceful protest, but it…
Dear Mr Man, be very sure Madam is ‘agreeing’ to your plans o
Who’s in charge of deciding number of children? I went visiting my friend and came…
Dangers of cut-off culture in relationships — Tara Aisida
We’ve all heard of cancel culture, the practice of withdrawing support from public figures and…
You think girls began to sleep with dogs today? Let me tell you about my friend and a horse!
This thing about girls sleeping with dogs didn’t start today. I know a friend who…
‘Visa on Arrival’: What happens when we taste power
I didn’t just happen upon the comedy show, Visa on Arrival. My sister introduced it…
The science of relationships — Tara Aisida
I read a number of posts on Facebook about the latest Honest Bunch podcast offering…
Is tech good or bad? — Gbubemi Atimomo
Musings about how tech has influenced and altered our lives A few days ago, I…
A tale of compassion and struggle
I heard a story that made me tear up. I was talking to a friend…
Stop meddling in other people’s business. Mind yours — Tara Aisida
I loved the pictures and videos of Sharon Ooja’s wedding. It took place a week…
Cries of Biafra and woes of Nigeria — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
We take so much pride in telling lies to ourselves as Nigerians. The Nigeria-Biafra war…
Why did I marry Alhaji? To escape poverty, that’s all
How did that even happen? My name is Halima and I am 18 years old.…
Child Victim Blaming: Unmasking the disturbing reality
I am not sure I will ever understand why child victims of sexual assault are…
Reading great books that changed the world — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
The written word is lord over the universe. The coming of the internet instead of…
I have 3 daughters, but you see, I am not their father
I have a story to tell. Maybe I shouldn’t even be telling it but I…
Every married woman is a potential widow — Tara Aisida
I recently attended the first ever The African Widows Summit (TAWS) founded by Mrs Hope…
Are you taking care of yourself, bro? — Gbubemi Atimomo
In commemoration of Men’s Health Month This guy that I know. He had called me…
Legend of the Son of a Reverend Father: Odili Tony Ujubuonu — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
When he writes his novels he bears the name Odili Ujubuonu. When he wants to…
Fatherhood based on building strong bonds across separation — Tara Aisida
I was speaking with someone the other day. He has two daughters, a 10-year-old and…
Democracy Day: Electricity bill is larger than my salary — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
Today has been declared a public holiday by the Nigerian Government to mark Democracy Day.…
I left my husband to save my sons, was I right or wrong?
My name is Ayisatu Olondo. I come from Abeokuta, in Ogun state. I’m 37 years…
It’s not body shaming, it’s avoiding being a statistic!
I saw a video on WhatsApp, a skit, really. A young lady in risqué attire…
Every great relationship needs boundaries — Tara Aisida
I am a happy go lucky person. I generally do not sweat the small stuff…
My mourned soulmate Pita Okute — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
I am in tears as I write the words here. It has been shattering for…
Maybe we shouldn’t blame women who sleep with pastors
Some pastors are from hell, that’s why they will never make heaven. Do you recall…
Of broken bonds and hidden struggles of financial trust in marriage — Tara Aisida
Sometime in 2006, Dupe, a married woman in her late 30s, attended a finance seminar…
We had a threesome on my wedding night
When I met my husband, I didn’t know I would end up having a constant…
Can men truly forgive anything but cheating?
So I came across this post on X, diary of a naijagirl. Poster narrated a…
Marriage in the time of selfishness — Tara Aisida
It’s another week of wrangling on the war between the genders and today’s takes are…
That $90b hajj subsidy — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
Let’s get serious for once in this country. The government gleefully announced that the subsidy…
Shoot them before they grow!
It does not take a genius to know that the idea of sponsoring the wedding…
Why will a woman leave a good man?
So, I was told this story that trended recently. Guy, who claims to be a…
Cole insults from Victoria Island — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
If your family name is not Cole, and your address is not Victoria Island, it…
DSTV of the Killer Price Hikes — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
There is no monopoly in the whole wide world heavier than the oppressor from South…
Me, go to a Nigerian church again? Never!
My story is funny but also not very funny. I am a Christian, do you…
Wedlock is not wait-and-take comedy — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
Wedlock ought to be serious business of very serious people who ought to be serious…
I gave my baby away and my breasts still flow with milk
What happened to me is not my fault. I came to live with Aunty when…
True godliness is shown by one’s character — Tara Aisida
The way and manner Pastor Paul Enenche of Dunamis International Gospel Centre, reacted to the…
The last word on Media Relations — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
Public relations as it concerns the media has received a much needed breakthrough in the…
What will happen to Bobrisky in jail?
“Finally, hand don touch am,” as we say in naija. The news about Bobrisky, aka…
Consequences of awa anyhowness — Tara Aisida
Throughout the week, several events occurred that prompted me to ponder once again at the…
Nigeria’s Aginam leads the world via the United Nations — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
A distinguished Nigerian, Professor Obijiofor Aginam, has upped the ante of the country by leading…
My people, childlessness is not a disease
Years back, I heard this story about a childless couple, who had gone to every…
What are your pet peeves? — Gbubemi Atimomo
Musings about some of the things that irk the very bottom of my soul Everyone…
Story of many colours of Azuh Arinze — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
One does not need to write too many words to signify the essence of the…
Pastors of perfect power — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
The powerful pastors of newfangled Christianity are all over the place in good old Nigeria…
Abeg, who’s the father of this homeless mad woman’s children?
I had been seeing her on that road for some time; the road leading from…
Nigeria on the brink — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
The country is in a bad shape. Everything appears to be going wrong in Nigeria…
Ngozi the commissioner spells education — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
The student was different. She exuded confidence that seized the atmosphere like a charge of…
Are you showing kindness?
I’ve often heard people say – be kind. Because… In a relationship, the one thing…
Hunger has no political party — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
Any man in power in Nigeria can boast of an intimidating number of sycophants, toadies…
I regret the day I slept with my wife!
I don’t want to go and begin to blame anyone because once people read my…
Understanding the strong woman — Tara Aisida
Understanding the strong woman — Tara Aisida I find that people regard me as a…
She loves me, he loves me not — Gbubemi Atimomo
Thoughts on unrequited love Oyemi and Jojo were both 3rd year students studying the same…
Coups all over the continent — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
Coups and earthquakes! Foreign journalists from America and Britain who covered Africa back in the…
My husband’s side chick has a baby but it is not OUR own!!!
You can call me a scorned woman and you won’t be wrong. My husband and…
When they say ‘thunder fire you’, my sister, run o!
First of all, my story is not about tribe or ethnic group nor is it…
This world is spoilt and there’s no honour among thieves
A few years ago, I went shopping for my kids at Ikeja. As I was…
What to make of love after it has gone — Tara Aisida
I knew an older couple, they were so very much in love, so into each…
Football as a religion in Nigeria — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
Nothing excites and unifies Nigerians like football, especially when the national team, the Super Eagles,…
Bitter sweet love’s journey from fear to fulfillment — Tara Aisida
My widowed friend met a divorcee who swept her off her feet. He was everything…
Na everybody go chop breakfast — Gbubemi Atimomo
Thoughts on heartbreak and broken relationships It was a whirlwind romance. Mimi reluctantly attended a…
Pastor Feyi Daniels finally got royally effed!
I had to be crude with my headline because I read horrible comments from Nigerians…
Love is a many splendoured thing — Tara Aisida
I watched a couple being interviewed on an instagram page and they were not overly…
So long a letter — Gbubemi Atimomo
Reflections on the almost completely lost art of letter writing A couple of months ago,…
The Beautiful Game is the only Nigerian vehicle — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
It’s only one vehicle bearing the legend “One Nigeria” that plies the badly maintained roads…
Be responsible and take a stand for yourself — Tara Aisida
Two incidents trended some days back that made me more appreciative of my non-religious background.…
The world hails El Anatsui @ 80 — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
They no longer make creative masters like the personable wonder simply called El Anatsui. El…
He has to die a thousand deaths before I forgive him
I heard Taju has finally died. May he die a thousand deaths. You should not…
Your money or your life? — Gbubemi Atimomo
Pondering the worth of the average Nigerian’s life I remember hearing stories of people being…
Feats of Chairman Ofobuike as reason to believe — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
It’s cool by me to stay out of the urban scene in the festive season…
TB Joshua: Should Evelyn Joshua be held accountable?
I watched the three-part BBC documentary on TB Joshua and I was not at all…
How to no gree for anybody — Tara Aisida
If you are up to date with the latest slangs in town you must have…
Awo & HID: Nigeria’s greatest political couple — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
Chief Obafemi Awolowo famously described his wife as “the jewel of inestimable value.” In the…
Like Potiphar’s wife, she lured me but my mother was praying for me
I began to work for my Madam through a sister, more or less a cousin…
What’s new about the New Year — Tara Aisida
I followed the crowd, going to cross over services every 31st of December with my…
Every day can be a new year — Gbubemi Atimomo
Reflections on the year gone by as I prepare for the New Year Happy New…
My heart may not beat to 2024
I am very heartbroken as I speak to you, I don’t think I will live…
Thinking of a Koboless Christmas — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
Most Nigerians are koboless – I mean, they have no kobo coins in their pockets,…
Being nice can be rewarding
So I tried this in-flight hack that my partner had told me about. This often…
Birthday of Ancient Man — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
My birthday is about to happen, which means that Nigeria is older than me by…
Your quick guide to crashing parties — Gbubemi Atimomo
Tips for ensuring you find your way into the best parties, uninvited I don’t know…
I don’t know what hurts most; the beating my in-law gave me or my husband’s death?
I still hurt from being beating. But let me tell you my story. met my…
Poor Mr Ibu, the rich but poverty-stricken comedian
It’s a poor man who when he dies his children are immediately up in arms…
He told me my wife has a spirit but he is the devil itself!
My pastor is a devil that is why he fooled me and I am reporting…
One day, the police will be your friend
Did you get to see that video clip of Nigeria’s paramilitary officers singing a special…
I ate a birthday cake and became a high flier
I smoke but only when with friends, actually. I don’t do igbo or drugs even…
Let’s celebrate entrepreneurship — Gbubemi Atimomo
In commemoration of Global Entrepreneurship Week 2023 I remember, in the not-too-distant past, when the…
Teddy is the name of a girl -dog
My neighbour has a dog. I am not one of those people who like dogs.…
Kneel to the King of Squats
Let me tell you how I came to love squats. I came across him by…
To japa or not is the question — Tara Aisida
Her video went viral. The one in which she confessed to the whole world that…
I feel bad for Mohbad!
Since he died last month, 12th of September, 2023, Ilerioluwa Oladimeji Aloba, aka Mohbad has…
Much ado about an iPhone — Tara Aisida
I am sure, like me, a lot of people followed the story of the 16-year-old…
Commuting within Lagos by train — Gbubemi Atimomo
Thoughts on my excursion on the Blue Line Lagos Metro On Monday, 4 September 2023,…
President Tinubu’s CSU certificate saga and multiple narratives, don’t believe the hype — Magnus Onyibe
Sequel to the deposition made by Chicago State University, CSU Registrar Mr Caleb Westberg in…
I was a good house-help until my oga started coming for me!
This is how it all began. I joined an agency that recruits househelp for foreigners:…
Unmasking the shadowy web of blackmail in our society’s underbelly — Tara Aisida
I had a friend in secondary school who one day sent a message to all…
White Scholar interviews The Poet — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
First question: Could you tell me a little about where you grew up and how you…
Taboo! My grandchild is my step child
I’ve heard stories about fathers having sex with their daughters. Some even impregnating them, never…
The unseen weight of unmet expectations in relationships — Tara Aisida
So, a lady posted on social media that a random guy she met sent her…
Thank you for the blue rail line but won’t it end up like the stinking Oshodi exchange?
I join millions of Lagosians in welcoming the launch of operations of the Blue rail…
Japa story: My sister told me to endure his p3n!s
I japa-ed before it became a thing. I was young. I had just left school.…
Dear women, biko stop going for these deliverance sessions, na!
Every time I hear about deliverance sessions, I know it’s got to involve a woman.…
How not to kill yourself over a woman — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
There’s this recent sad news of a pastor in Nnewi, Anambra State who killed himself…
I fell in love with my abductor
I was abducted on my way back from school along that notorious Rijana road in…
Let’s cut the first born child some slack — Tara Aisida
I followed the twitter conversation initiated by @BigBadReni who posted that she started to rebel…
Will Prof Cyril Ndifon rape the law again?
The Dean of the Faculty of Law, University Of Calabar, Prof Cyril Ndifon has again…
Death makes you appreciate life
I lost my mum two weeks ago and all has not been well with me.…
Dr Vwaere Diaso: The consequences of no consequence — Tara Aisida
I once read an article by Frank Sonnenberg titled “The Consequences of no consequence“ and…
What does your dream job look like? — Gbubemi Atimomo
Pondering the idea of a dream job Many people desire to find their “dream job”,…
Will you attend your ex-‘s wedding?
“Tufia kwa! Wedding kwa! When they are not doing me from the village!” It was…
So because he is my son, I should excuse the rape?
My son is a rapist! I don’t believe I will ever get to live the…
Living a Lie: A brief history of the consequences of cheating — Tara Aisida
The uproar and mystery surrounding Mmesome Ejikeme, the young lady that claimed that her JAMB…
Let’s throw in the towel to save Nigerians from annihilation — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
I am here to eat my words, that is, to swallow my own vomit. Back…
He called me for gele but raped and robbed me!
His name is Lukman, that is all I know about him. I met him through…
Even at 249, Ejikeme Mmesoma is an outstanding student!
Like most of us, I haven’t met Mmesoma beyond everything I have read and heard…
Pacesetter Agbo Areo passes away — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
It was from a Facebook post of my dear brother Chuma Nwokolo that I learnt…
I gave him a car as wedding present, he gave me chlamydia!
Chlamydia. That is the gift I got on my wedding day. You know what chlamydia…
What Men Want: Understanding the male gender 101 — Tara Aisida
It’s no secret that I am fascinated with the male gender. I find men of…
President Tinubu discovers ice in Macondo — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
Let the whole wide world join me in the universal celebration of President Bola Ahmed…
My wife is dead but I am still sleeping with her
My wife has been dead for more than one year now and I will say…
Chiamaka’s butt enlargement isn’t why she died
You might have read about this young woman, Chiamaka Okafor reported to have died on…
It’s still a man’s world — Tara Aisida
I recently watched Sista, an emotional, relatable and thought provoking film written, produced and directed…
Her pregnancy came from sex toys, the baby isn’t mine!
When a woman decides that sex-toys are more important than her man, I swear to…
GWR Cookathon: Too many cooks, spoil the…
Too many cooks they say…spoils the broth and so is this cookathon business When Chef…
My husband was in jail but a female police officer saved our marriage
I have five daughters. Now, the only reason I have all five is because my…
Woof! Hilda Baci and dog lovers!
In a dog eat dog world, there’re no freebies. So when beloved Hilda Baci, our…
What it means to be a man — Tara Aisida
June is traditionally known as the month dedicated to men, the one and only day…
Writing for Time magazine against all odds — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
Let’s just agree that it is every journalist’s dream in the world to have an…
My father-in-law wants me for himself
My father-in-law thinks he owns me! My tale is a tale of the bizarre but…
There was a man called John Jerry Rawlings — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
Nigeria is more divided than ever, and the politicians of Nigeria have gone completely mad. …
Not every Japa suffers o
Enough, if not too much, has been said about this business of Japa. ‘Don’t japa,’…
Tiamiyu and his savage view of fellow Nigerians on BBC
I watched a snippet of the video that has been circulating all over social media.…
Let’s swear-in the new president — Gbubemi Atimomo
The unofficial guide to attending the presidential inauguration Brace yourself for Bola Ahmed Tinubu’s impending…
Gems from Peter “Pan” Enahoro’s “How To Be A Nigerian” — Uzor Maxim Uzoatu
When a great man dies, the general rave is to read his repetitive biographical details…
My mother-in-law is a sex pervert o!
The first thing I heard her say to me after the second night we began…
Concerned citizens appeal to Sanwo-Olu, Dangote Foundation, Banks, MTN Foundation, NNPC, others to assist journalist for brain surgery
Some concerned citizens including media and corporate affairs practitioners have appealed to Lagos State Governor,…
Obasanjo’s moment of epiphany — Promise Adiele
I met Olusegun Obasanjo for the first time in his Abeokuta home in 2017. I…
Inspiring girls to shape their futures at FinishedWork 2024
The second edition of the FinishedWork Girl-child International Conference 2024 celebrated the resilience and aspirations…
Stanbic IBTC unveils DiSEP 4.0, empowering Nigerian youths with cutting-edge digital skills
Stanbic IBTC Holdings, a member of Standard Bank Group, has unveiled the fourth edition of…
*Senate holds valedictory service for late Ifeanyi Ubah (Channels)*13-year-old remanded for defiling toddler (Punch)
Senate holds valedictory service for late Ifeanyi Ubah (Channels) The Senate suspended the house rules…
SeerBit lights up DevFest Lagos 2024, showcasing innovation & commitment to developers, tech enthusiasts
SeerBit, Africa’s most trusted payment solutions provider, has reaffirmed its pivotal role in shaping the…
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Tinubu seeks N’Assemby’s approval for $2.2b fresh external loan (Punch) President Bola Tinubu has written…
17-year-old Ugochukwu, son of Nigerian model Oluchi Onweagba, wins Macau Grand Prix
Ugo Ugochukwu, the 17-year-old Nigerian-American racing prodigy, clinched the 2024 FIA Formula Regional (FR) World…
How President-elect Trump plans to transform Washington — Magnus Onyibe
President-elect Donald Trump, set to assume office as the 47th president of the United States…
Tinubu approves 3 spokespersons for his government
President Bola Tinubu has restructured his media and communications team, designating three Special Advisers to…
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