I will say it again, Chioma my sister, no vex.
It seems we are all being entertained by the latest Davido-baby-mama drama with this American woman called Anita Brown.
Like most online readers of this unfolding mess, I wondered aloud why Davido would not wear a condom with these girls who throw themselves at him. The way I see it, having a baby for him is the least of the issues here.
Why?
Davido won’t be the first celebrity, nor the last to have a harem with little Davidos littered all over the world.
But like my people say, if you must eat a frog, biko eat the fat one with eggs.
This Anita Brown is certainly a skinny frog with no eggs.
She is reported to be a porn star, who claims she isn’t chasing clout by posting details of her pregnancy tests online for all to see. True or not, she’s got our attention…for now.
Not especially with a video showing her performing a blow job…I’m wondering, was she at work then or it was meant for us to just wonder at her skills and what she did with Davido?
Anita isn’t keeping quiet
She’s throwing dirt all over the internet, calling Davido names, and claiming Davido is a bad father, which is why his son, Ifeanyi died.
See why I said this one is a frog with no eggs?
Should anybody be using a child’s death in such a careless manner?
So what exactly drew these two together?
Crazy sex, I think.
The type he must have seen only on porn sites.
But in a way, I get why Davido had been having sex with Anita. (Anita claimed they had been off and on since 2017) Was it to boast about it perhaps? But haba, bro, why didn’t you use a condom? It’s like dipping into a public toilet, you’ll come out smelling like a skunk!
This is why I think having a baby is the least of his issues, here.
Davido has shown he lacks restraint, he is reckless and very insensitive.
What if he contracted a disease and infected his wife?
What if this disease then makes her barren, unable to have more children?
How secure will she be in a home where babies are just popping up everywhere he goes to do shows, further diminishing her place as a wife in the home he claims to have made with her?
But I am not here to judge Davido
I like him. I think he is hardworking and talented.
And as I said before, he won’t be the first musician of note to father several children.
I choose not to mention marriage here because in Africa, whether married to the mothers of his children or not, no child is a bastard
So long as DNA results reveal the child to be from Davido’s loins, all the children he has, both home and abroad, in marriage and out of, are his and have equal rights to his wealth.
That being said, I turn to Chioma.
Chioma my sister, n’do, o.
I can only guess what you must be going through right now.
It’s one thing to have a philandering husband, one that you can’t even trust that him leaving the bedroom to go into the toilet is only just to take a piss and not to go texting some ashi somewhere. You can’t trust that that visit to a family or friend is only just that and not a quickie with some fan he has sequestered in a hotel to go have sex with.
When your man can’t be selective about his choice of women, it becomes a problem not just for him but for you.
You have to deal with trash when you are class
I’ll bet some friend or family or even enemy has taken it upon themselves to update Chioma about Anita Brown’s antics, especially the porn part. This will break her heart in many places. She would be wishing she hadn’t even married a man who committed to her simply because they both lost a child together.
What can I say?
Davido is a star on the rise and unless he stops playing music, he will continue to have dalliances like this…when he goes on tours, when he has shows, even in his backyard…this kind of baby-mama drama will trail him.
Chioma has to take heart and not die because of these.
She has to know that when you roll with dogs, you shouldn’t complain of fleas.
When you marry a bobo with Davido’s looks, fame, and money…women will be all over him and he will not be far from scandals. Go ask the several women, home and international who’ve had to deal with this.
It’s just like Meghan Markle complaining about the Royal family. Didn’t she know what type of family she was marrying into? Their stiff upper lip will not tremble because she married one of them.
So it will have to be for Chioma
She knew Davido likes women.
She knew girls would go to great lengths to lure him to sleep with them. There are too many examples of what girls will do to have a celebrity have sex with them.
Even if he has no plans to sleep around, his buddies will arrange babes for him…it is what they do.
Will Davido change?
There is no promise of Davido changing. If he must change, he has to do so for himself and not for Chioma’s sake.
And until he gets to that point when he decides he is done with this kind of mess, only then can Chioma hope to have her man back…but here’s the thing, will she want him back?
Will she trust him?
Will she love him like she did before?
I suspect she will wait. Women have a long waiting time… until she can dish out her version of revenge which I don’t think will be pretty.