Thoughts about death and dying “Nobody wan kpai (die) but them wan go heaven” said 2Baba in his song “No shaking”. He expressed a very real sentiment that many Nigerians share. We all know our time will come one day but…
She loves me, he loves me not — Gbubemi Atimomo
Thoughts on unrequited love Oyemi and Jojo were both 3rd year students studying the same course at the university. They had been friends since their first year when they first met and they ran in the same circles. One day,…
Every day can be a new year — Gbubemi Atimomo
Reflections on the year gone by as I prepare for the New Year Happy New Year!!! Everywhere I turn, someone is either sending me New Year greetings or reminding me that the year ahead is a year of something or…
Welcome to cutting season — Gbubemi Atimomo
Musings on re-examining and severing relationships Early last year, I found myself embroiled in a situation between two erstwhile friends. Before that time, I was unaware that the two friends had not spoken to themselves in a long while. As…
We need to showcase our cultures better — Gbubemi Atimomo
Thoughts on promoting and harnessing our diverse cultures for national good Her Majesty, Queen Elizabeth II, sovereign of the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland, Queen of other Commonwealth realms, Defender of the Faith and Supreme Governor of…
Why we should let the professionals do their job — Gbubemi Atimomo
Musings on the reasons some people seek advice from unqualified persons We all experience life in different ways and because we are not all-knowing, we sometimes have to rely on other people to support us with advice or guidance when…
Activating version 2.0: From dull larva to bright butterfly – Gbubemi Atimomo
Thoughts on becoming a better version of yourself I have always been curious about people. I find human beings quite fascinating: how we are all so alike and yet, so different. I constantly wonder why people behave the way they…
Obey before complain and understanding the need to seek clarification — Gbubemi Atimomo
Thoughts on following instructions and challenging them too One thing I heard so many times at the military secondary school I attended was the mantra “obey before complaint”. It was one of the first introductory statements that welcomed new students…
How did you choose your career? -Gbubemi Atimomo
Thoughts on determining your career path Choosing what career to pursue can be either a tough or easy decision. It is one decision everybody makes either intentionally, accidentally, or unconsciously. It is often good to make that decision early, however,…
How To Survive These Tough Times – Gbubemi Atimomo
…tips on living a more frugal life to fit challenging times According to Dr Robert Schuller, “Tough times never last but tough people do”. No one can convince me that this realisation didn’t dawn on him after a quick trip…