Pata cake pata cake, bake me a bread Pastor, pastor make me a baby… Having babies, for some women can be mission impossible. These set of women, no matter how many hours they spend on their backs being pounded over…
Our culture of silence is plain nasty
We have a nasty culture around here; the kind that stifles the truth; the kind that stops you from voicing any ill just because a few feathers will be ruffled or simply because of shame. Growing up, I attended an…
Why will a woman leave a good man?
So, I was told this story that trended recently. Guy, who claims to be a good boyfriend, goes ghost mode on his girlfriend. He poses as a medical doctor, living in Port Harcourt and sends a friend request to his…
Beware, con artists are on the prowl
Every day I get inundàted by security alerts forwarded to me on Whatsapp, warning of the new ways robbers are devising to rob people. There are security alerts on kidnappings and even Boko Haram. These alerts are forgetting to warn…
Are you showing kindness?
I’ve often heard people say – be kind. Because… In a relationship, the one thing that will keep it going when all else fails is…kindness; in life, the one thing that may determine how far up the ladder of success…
When the devil gets on your case, only God can help you
I’ve heard people deride others about the existence of the devil. Yes, I mean the red being with horns and a dragon’s tail. Old folks will tell you not to eat with this two faced liar and if you must,…
Ending domestic abuse should start with women
The issue of domestic violence is wide but what concerns me today is battery. Weeks back, someone sent me a short video clip of a street interview conducted by a local tv station. It was more of a vox pop.…
Come o, what do you know about your neighbour?
The day Eleanor’s husband, Obatunde, moved out of their matrimonial home, virtually everyone in our estate knew and for almost one year after, Eleanor did not breathe a word about it, she kept mum, carried on as if all was…
One day, the police will be your friend
Did you get to see that video clip of Nigeria’s paramilitary officers singing a special rendition of that popular Christmas song, Feliz Navidad? Yeah? Were you impressed with the pretty fair-skinned Civil Defence female officer in the opening scene and…
Fine woman, dirty undies
Women generally are familiar with body heat, it’s in our genetic makeup-hormones and the like, I guess. And when we get pregnant that heat intensifies; it’s almost as if there’ll be an implosion. I remember when I was pregnant, years…
