I saw one of my father’s mistresses a few days ago and it brought back memories. But then it did something else, it made me understand why my father wanted to “kill” himself because of her. My parents got divorced…
Haba, you live your life in public, and now complain of being judged! – Tara Aisida
There is a dangerous trend which seems to be growing in leaps and bounds nowadays. It is the living of our private lives in public, the unsolicited invitation given to members of the public to have a ringside seat at…
A strange woman is sleeping with my father and my mum is ok with it
My parents are in their late 60s; they have been together for more than 50 years and to the best of my knowledge, have always been very close. My siblings and I, over the years always said, ‘If you don’t…
She was point and kill, he should have chopped and left her at the club!
My brother and I were the only children my mother had for my father; we came from a polygamous home. My father had seven wives and my mum was the fifth. However, my brother and I loved each other because…
Oya, here are lessons I have learnt from being locked down all alone -Tara Aisida
I have lived almost 50years on this earth and in all my years of living, I can truthfully say that I have never lived alone like I have in the past few weeks. From primary school all through NYSC, I…
Please, tell her to abort the pregnancy, keeping it is a taboo!
I beg you, I will even give you her number to call her and tell her that this thing she is doing is wrong. Both of us are wrong. Please, when I finish my story, you must call her. So…
Pregnant for my son-in-law. Should I keep it or remove it?
I regret a lot of things. I regret that I hurt my own child, my only child. See, I don’t like saying that something is the devil’s work but this one, I was pushed by the devil two years ago!…
I’ve always helped my sister but this lockdown, she is on her own!
Shortly before the lockdown, before many of us even knew we would be on lockdown, I took my younger sister to get implants done, for family planning. She’s in her mid-forties. Why did I take a grown woman to get…
Conspiracies and herd mentality-Tara Aisida
Have you watched those documentaries where a herd of cattle jump off a cliff in a frenzy? I have watched several and often wondered at their stupidity for surely they should be able to see that their action is doomed,…
Me and husband’s side-chick are defrauding him, may he never find out!
Sometime last year, yes, last year, I was approached by a young girl, one of those that come to buy things from my boutique. She said she knew someone who had been dating my husband and that the girl only…