I have a vague recollection of the first time I visited Lagos. Once a year, my parents did a road trip to Abeokuta; where we are from. So, whoever was available would follow them. I went with them because I…
Help, I am in an abusive relationship – Abiodun Kuforiji Nkwocha
I have a vague recollection of the first time I visited Lagos. Once a year, my parents did a road trip to Abeokuta; where we are from. So, whoever was available would follow them. I went with them because I…
Abeg shift, it’s still a man’s world-Abiodun Kuforiji Nkwocha
The women decorate it, spice it up and give it to the men on a platter of their dignity. A man can do whatever he wants and get away with it. The woman that does it with him will be…
America is not flowing with milk and honey – Abiodun Kuforiji Nkwocha
He leaned close to me and stretched out his phone. I looked at it. It was a picture of a young man wearing only tight pants flexing huge biceps and flashing a smile. “My boy… the one wey dey Florida.”…
Death and Life – Abiodun Kuforiji Nkwocha
My husband and I dragged my luggage downstairs from my hotel room. This was 27th June 2015. We had finished the Farafina 2015 workshop and leaving the hotel was bittersweet. Bitter because the 10days were too short and sweet because…
Na wa, kids of these days have no respect-Abiodun Kuforiji Nkwocha
These kids sef. I am not talking about my own children. I am talking about young boys and girls. Ok, maybe not boys and girls like that. I mean young adults. Those in the late teen years and early to…