I was speaking with some friends a while back and whilst talking it dawned on me that the reason why I had a need to be in control when it came to certain areas of my life was because I…
Is your relationship a situation-ship? — Tara Aisida
I spoke with two matured single men recently; both of them are in their fifties and divorced, in response to my curiosity about their love life and if they had any significant other, the first man said that there was…
Dealing with steps, half-siblings and exes -Tara Aisida
My father always said he was going to have more children after the three my mother bore him but we never took him serious and for years we remained his only children until the year I got married, when he…
Nobody will respect you, if you don’t respect yourself – Tara Martins Aisida
It was a Christmas buffet at a popular hotel. A family of 4 sat down to eat, elegantly dressed mother, stately looking father and two children. All of a sudden, the man shouted at his wife “ODE” which in Yoruba…
