I am a happy go lucky person. I generally do not sweat the small stuff and I have an open door policy without much reservations about people’s behaviour. I do not voice out my needs in my relationships mainly because…
The unseen weight of unmet expectations in relationships — Tara Aisida
So, a lady posted on social media that a random guy she met sent her N100k for transport to an address, telling her to dress well. When she got to the address, she discovered it was a guesthouse and after…
Don’t expect too much from people — Gbubemi Atimomo
Thoughts on having and managing expectations I remember when I started job hunting in Lagos after returning from NYSC in Fika, Yobe State. It had been a year spent teaching secondary school students government, a subject I hadn’t taken in…
Mr and Mrs, please listen; some fights are just not worth having- Tara Martins Aisida
Family background matters a lot. I was married for 24+ years and if there is any one lesson I have learnt from being married, It is that backgrounds matter a lot. The way we are brought up and the experiences…
Dear Woman listen to me – you need to love yourself -Tara Martins Aisida
I got married at 22 going on 23 ( yes I started making love legally at an early age) but what did I know then. As far as I was concerned marriage was the next step after graduation. It was what…