I married early -22 going on 23 and by my 25th birthday I was the proud mother of a baby girl just like my mother was some 25 years ago. My daughter clocks 25 in some few months, however, there…
Debunking the myths in marriage – Tara Aisida
We all woke up to the sudden announcement that Bill and Melinda Gates were divorcing and as envisaged, theories have begun to be bandied about as to the factors that have led to the death of their marriage. It is…
See woman o, after 12 years, she says I am now too old for her
I married my wife when she was in her early twenties; she had just come back from Europe at that time. She was deported from Europe where she told me she was working. I asked, “as what?” but she said…
I will take her husband from her if she doesn’t behave herself!
Do I look like a husband snatcher? I am a live and let live guy; I don’t want to take Sandra’s husband from her; but we both love him and if indeed she loves him, she won’t be there threatening…
Are you in a sexless marriage? – Tara Aisida
As a single matured woman, I am wont to look enviously at married couples especially on cold wet nights and wonder what must be going on behind closed doors. I imagine how sweaty and steamy their love making is and…
Have you heard of ‘companionate relationship’? It’s the in thing. Tara Aisida
I watched two films recently on Netflix . One was titled “Our souls at night “ and the other was “The Leisure Seekers”. They both filled me with wistful thoughts for reasons I will explain later but the crux of both…
Marriage is not a visa to heaven-Tara Aisida
Let me say upfront that I am not the kind of woman that gushes over romantic films or books. I am not romantic in the way most people define romance because true life has nothing in common with the rose…
To hell with this marriage! I can’t use the same mouth to speak in tongues and suck dxxk!
It’s been how many days now since this nonsense isolation? And I can’t take it anymore. You know, at the beginning, I was kind of happy that finally, B, would stay home with me and the boys. I swear, this…
My sister is getting married, but we are not happy for her?
My sister has sickle cell. My mother had endued three pregnancies and buried two baby girls before she was born. The third time, my mother’s baby girl did not die… we named her Boluwatife, meaning, this is the way God…
If love is so sweet, why is there so much bitterness in my life?
Isn’t it amazing how life stabs you in the back when all you do is blink, a natural thing to do when all is seemingly well? Tope and I met at the University of Lagos. At that point, I believed…