My friend called me with tears in his eyes and a heavy and confused heart. He almost could not utter the words but he needed to say it to someone and for some reason I was the person that came…
Are you in a sexless marriage? – Tara Aisida
As a single matured woman, I am wont to look enviously at married couples especially on cold wet nights and wonder what must be going on behind closed doors. I imagine how sweaty and steamy their love making is and…
These are the signs you’re ready to define your relationship (Metro)
The stages of dating – from just texting to seeing each other to being in a proper relationship – are complicated. Your parents might remember the glory days of courting progressing straight to getting engaged, but in these modern times…
Yes, God is the husband of the widow but will He sleep with her? -Tara Martins Aisida
A older friend of mine approached me about a month after Mr Aisi’s death and said “Tara when you start having boyfriends don’t have them close to home ooo.” I laughed and told her “ah Aunty my grief is still…
Yes o. He gave me N15m but he f–ked me for free for 4 long years!
‘Karuwa!!’ ‘Gold digger!’ ‘Barawo!’ Every time I go to court and hear these words flung at me, I don’t feel shame, instead i feel regret. There’s no shame in this matter; I have not said I didn’t collect N15million from…
The 7 Signs Of A Mature Love-(Medium)
Mostly because we’re tricked into believing in the all the wrong markers of love. We’re tricked into believing real love is all about romance and grand gestures, that it’s about strong, passionate feelings that move you into doing things you…
Getting lucky at the ATM (2) -Oshoko Bushushu
I stood there and watched her cook as we talked. First we talked about her cousin, my former colleague, Freddy and then we talked about work before our conversation moved to Lagos and the hustle, how it affects us all…
Help, I am in an abusive relationship – Abiodun Kuforiji Nkwocha
I have a vague recollection of the first time I visited Lagos. Once a year, my parents did a road trip to Abeokuta; where we are from. So, whoever was available would follow them. I went with them because I…
I want to wake up in Wakanda – Olmasina Raita
Is it me or do people just come with standard issue mental health problems these days? I was talking with a friend the other day and she told me “Babe, I think I am going to try being by myself…