She was not exactly my friend. We moved in the same circles, have the same schoolmates, our kids, at one time, went to the same school and we lived within the same estate! Yes, we lived in the same estate;…
10 years ago my sister disappeared. Her story will shock you.
We lived on a very long street. The street was divided into two; on the left were the poor while the right belonged to the rich and I am not telling you a fairy tale. It was as if some…
I am a refined feminist-Tara Aisida
If you are on Twitter, you may have noticed that in the past few days, women circles have been quite active and the word “Feminist coven” trended. Several ladies now have the word “member feminist coven” on their bylines and…
Yes, I caused her death but I can never admit it in public
Ours was a forbidden love and we knew it from the get go. We could easily have been siblings because we were born at about the same time, same day at the same hospital. Maybe that’s why we fell in…
She is my sister, my only sister but we are sworn enemies
My mother had two children; both of us are girls; my father of course had many wives; and as you know in most polygamous homes, the wives are often the ones who care for the children; the father is a…
He wants his baby but I said, no
Mine is a simple and short story. I needed to share because I need to hear my own thoughts. I started out on this journey by not thinking. I wasn’t thinking when shortly after I separated from my husband of…
Open relationships, swinging and sex toys-Tara Aisida
If there is anything I am fascinated with apart from people and how they reason, it is an understanding of the dynamics of relationships and how people conduct, live or cope with the uniqueness of their situation. So you can…
Beware of family o. My husband believed a lie from my sister and now kataka has burst!
In life there are so many things that test you as a human being and if you believe strongly in God, it would test your faith. I got married some 15 years ago When I did, my elder sister was…
‘Special packages’ work, depending on who receives it!
I was on Zoom with a few friends when the topic moved to these ‘special packages’ doing the rounds on WhatsApp. My friends were laughing and saying they wanted some girls to do ‘special package’ on them. Their belief is…
Is there a right and a wrong way to love someone? – Tara Aisida
Love is an emotion that we all crave. Even the worst of humanity no matter how hardened or aloof they may be, desire to have a special connection to someone. We all want to love and be loved and will…